Bibliography
Bibliography/References for Dialogue Practice Group:
Harville Hendrix, Getting The Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, 20th Anniversary Edition
Harville Hendrix & Helen Hunt, Workbook, Getting the Love You Want: The New Couples' Study Guide
Terry Real, New Rules of Marriage (available in Audio Book and Book)
Marshall Rosenberg, NonViolent Communication: A Language of Life, 2nd Edition
Jack Zimmerman & Jaquelyn McCandless, Flesh & Spirit: The Mystery of Intimate Relationship
Jack Zimmerman & Virginia Coyle, The Way of Council
Harville Hendrix, Getting The Love You Want: A Guide for Couples, 20th Anniversary Edition
Harville Hendrix & Helen Hunt, Workbook, Getting the Love You Want: The New Couples' Study Guide
Terry Real, New Rules of Marriage (available in Audio Book and Book)
Marshall Rosenberg, NonViolent Communication: A Language of Life, 2nd Edition
Jack Zimmerman & Jaquelyn McCandless, Flesh & Spirit: The Mystery of Intimate Relationship
Jack Zimmerman & Virginia Coyle, The Way of Council
Resources - General
Dialogue
What is Imago Therapy - video by Harville & Helen (YouTube VIDEO)
How to Talk Politics by Harville and Helen
Miscellaneous
Great couples' intro material - from The Couples Institute (Video Link)
Finding Freedom -A Do Over by Lori Woodley
Initiator – Inquirer Process in Couples Therapy, with Ellyn Bader
Active Listening, Clinton Callahan, “Directing the Power of Conscious Feelings: Living Your Own Truth”, 2010
Newt Bailey, Communication Dojo
The Importance of Gratitude in Relationships
Humor - It's Not About The Nail (YouTube VIDEO)
What to do when one of you wants to change your partner - sequence of change - Video with Ellyn Bader
Apologies in NVC, by LaShelle Lowe-Chard
Intimate Relationships in NVC, By Marshall Rosenberg UouTube Audio)
Science Says Lasting Relationships Come Down To 2 Basic Traits - on John Gottman's philosophy of Kindness and Contempt
Still Face Experiment by Ed Tronick (YouTube VIDEO)
Do Men Love Differently Than Women?
20 Practices from the book "The New Rules of Marriage" by Terry Real
Tony Robbins, How to achieve a great relationship (YouTube VIDEO)
Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person By ALAIN de BOTTON
Listening
"Deep Heart Listening" from HeartMath.com
"How to be a Good Listener" video clip by Terry Real (YouTube VIDEO)
Requests
What Keeps Us From Making Requests, by Pan Vera
Requests - Moving Toward What You Want, by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
Requests - Giving the Gift of Your Needs, by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
Making A Safe Space for Requests, by LaShelle Lowe-Chard
Solution for Conflicts Through Communication, Marshall Rosenberg (YouTube VIDEO)
Shame
Bring Light to Shame, by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
Time Outs
Terry Real on Time Outs
"The 10 Commandments on taking a Time Out" by Terry Real
"Asking for A Pause," by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"Pause" - Rick Hanson
Triggering - What To Do, How to Recover
Choice, Returning to Presence by Lori "Woodley
Triggering, John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachman Mattei , found in 6 part series, "Bringing Peace to Kids in Conflict", NVC Academy“
Speaking While Upset: Moving from Destructive to Constructive in 6 Simple Steps”. by Elaine Shpungin, Ph.D. in her blog “Peacemeal.”
"Hearing Without Defending", by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"Plan for Reactivity", by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"Solution for conflicts through communication", by Marshall Rosenberg (YouTube VIDEO)
"Mindful Dialogue", by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"2 Keys to Responsible Reactivity" - Connection Gem of the Week, by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"The Art of Not Being Offended" by Shemsi Prinzivalli
"Self Empathy in the Face of Reactivity", by LaShelle Lowe-Charde (YouTube VIDEO)
LaShelle Lowe-Charde On Reactivity
Just One Thing by Rick Hanson
"What I'm Making Up.....
Complaining to your Partner by Terry Real (YouTube VIDEO)
Zero Negativity
"A Commitment to Zero Negativity", Harville Hendricks and Helen Hunt (VIDEO)
Relationships
The New Rules of Marriage by Terry Real
How to Stay in Love by Terry Real and Esther Perel
What is Imago Therapy - video by Harville & Helen (YouTube VIDEO)
How to Talk Politics by Harville and Helen
Miscellaneous
Great couples' intro material - from The Couples Institute (Video Link)
Finding Freedom -A Do Over by Lori Woodley
Initiator – Inquirer Process in Couples Therapy, with Ellyn Bader
Active Listening, Clinton Callahan, “Directing the Power of Conscious Feelings: Living Your Own Truth”, 2010
Newt Bailey, Communication Dojo
The Importance of Gratitude in Relationships
Humor - It's Not About The Nail (YouTube VIDEO)
What to do when one of you wants to change your partner - sequence of change - Video with Ellyn Bader
Apologies in NVC, by LaShelle Lowe-Chard
Intimate Relationships in NVC, By Marshall Rosenberg UouTube Audio)
Science Says Lasting Relationships Come Down To 2 Basic Traits - on John Gottman's philosophy of Kindness and Contempt
Still Face Experiment by Ed Tronick (YouTube VIDEO)
Do Men Love Differently Than Women?
20 Practices from the book "The New Rules of Marriage" by Terry Real
Tony Robbins, How to achieve a great relationship (YouTube VIDEO)
Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person By ALAIN de BOTTON
Listening
"Deep Heart Listening" from HeartMath.com
"How to be a Good Listener" video clip by Terry Real (YouTube VIDEO)
Requests
What Keeps Us From Making Requests, by Pan Vera
Requests - Moving Toward What You Want, by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
Requests - Giving the Gift of Your Needs, by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
Making A Safe Space for Requests, by LaShelle Lowe-Chard
Solution for Conflicts Through Communication, Marshall Rosenberg (YouTube VIDEO)
Shame
Bring Light to Shame, by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
Time Outs
Terry Real on Time Outs
"The 10 Commandments on taking a Time Out" by Terry Real
"Asking for A Pause," by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"Pause" - Rick Hanson
Triggering - What To Do, How to Recover
Choice, Returning to Presence by Lori "Woodley
Triggering, John Kinyon and Stephanie Bachman Mattei , found in 6 part series, "Bringing Peace to Kids in Conflict", NVC Academy“
Speaking While Upset: Moving from Destructive to Constructive in 6 Simple Steps”. by Elaine Shpungin, Ph.D. in her blog “Peacemeal.”
"Hearing Without Defending", by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"Plan for Reactivity", by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"Solution for conflicts through communication", by Marshall Rosenberg (YouTube VIDEO)
"Mindful Dialogue", by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"2 Keys to Responsible Reactivity" - Connection Gem of the Week, by LaShelle Lowe-Charde
"The Art of Not Being Offended" by Shemsi Prinzivalli
"Self Empathy in the Face of Reactivity", by LaShelle Lowe-Charde (YouTube VIDEO)
LaShelle Lowe-Charde On Reactivity
Just One Thing by Rick Hanson
"What I'm Making Up.....
Complaining to your Partner by Terry Real (YouTube VIDEO)
Zero Negativity
"A Commitment to Zero Negativity", Harville Hendricks and Helen Hunt (VIDEO)
Relationships
The New Rules of Marriage by Terry Real
How to Stay in Love by Terry Real and Esther Perel
Resources - Therapy
Resources - Mainland
Terry Real, http://www.terryreal.com/
Harville Hendrix and Hellen LaKelly Hunt, PhD's, http://www.harvillehendrix.com/
Dr. Ellyn Bader and Dr. Peter Pearson, http://www.couplesinstitute.com/services/couples-community/
Newt Bailey, http://www.communicationdojo.com/
NVC Academy for online courses and library of audio recordings from classes, tele classes, etc. http://nvctraining.com/
LaShelle Lowe-Charde, Wise Heart web-site, with informative blog articles on relationships and NVC
Harville Hendrix and Hellen LaKelly Hunt, PhD's, http://www.harvillehendrix.com/
Dr. Ellyn Bader and Dr. Peter Pearson, http://www.couplesinstitute.com/services/couples-community/
Newt Bailey, http://www.communicationdojo.com/
NVC Academy for online courses and library of audio recordings from classes, tele classes, etc. http://nvctraining.com/
LaShelle Lowe-Charde, Wise Heart web-site, with informative blog articles on relationships and NVC
Resources - Non Violent Communication (NVC)
Feelings & Needs: http://www.wiseheartpdx.org/resources/15.pdf
NVC Academy for online courses and library of audio recordings from classes, teleclasses, etc. http://nvctraining.com/
also see persons with asterisks (*) below
NVC Academy for online courses and library of audio recordings from classes, teleclasses, etc. http://nvctraining.com/
also see persons with asterisks (*) below
Resources - Maui
*Becky Lewis, NVC Teacher leads a practice group in Kihei on Tuesday afternoons twice a month. She also offers day long Introductory Workshops. Call her for dates .510-761-6215 or email [email protected].
*Jim and Jori Manske, Certified NVC Trainers and Mediators, welcome all to their Maui Open Hearted Practice Group, currently meeting on Mondays from 4pm - 6pm in Haiku when on island. Learn more about their trainings and teleclasses (some free) at radicalcompassion.com. Connect with Jori and Jim via [email protected] or 808-575-5301.
Robert Vogele, Couple's Dialogue Coach, offers coaching and support to students and graduates of Ken and Dee's Dialogue workshop. Free. (Donations gratefully accepted). Call him for appointments / scheduling. [email protected] -- 573-8027
Maui Forum in Ha'iku: Robert Leonesio and Zoe Alexander host an Open Community Forum:
Connecting and evolving compassion through group witnessing and transparency the second Sunday of each month at their home / Workshop space in Haiku. Everyone is Welcome, and you can bring your friends. (6:45 arrival time) . FREE. Donations gratefully accepted. Location: Robert & Zoe's, 222 Peahi Rd, Haiku, Maui. Contact Person: Robert Leonesio -- 891-1996, [email protected]
*Jim and Jori Manske, Certified NVC Trainers and Mediators, welcome all to their Maui Open Hearted Practice Group, currently meeting on Mondays from 4pm - 6pm in Haiku when on island. Learn more about their trainings and teleclasses (some free) at radicalcompassion.com. Connect with Jori and Jim via [email protected] or 808-575-5301.
Robert Vogele, Couple's Dialogue Coach, offers coaching and support to students and graduates of Ken and Dee's Dialogue workshop. Free. (Donations gratefully accepted). Call him for appointments / scheduling. [email protected] -- 573-8027
Maui Forum in Ha'iku: Robert Leonesio and Zoe Alexander host an Open Community Forum:
Connecting and evolving compassion through group witnessing and transparency the second Sunday of each month at their home / Workshop space in Haiku. Everyone is Welcome, and you can bring your friends. (6:45 arrival time) . FREE. Donations gratefully accepted. Location: Robert & Zoe's, 222 Peahi Rd, Haiku, Maui. Contact Person: Robert Leonesio -- 891-1996, [email protected]