Why/When Use “Is There More Dialogue”
· Wanting to have a loving connection above all else
· Desiring communication at a deep personal level
· Wanting collaboration (not compromise) in problem solving
· Have an open heart to hearing the needs of another
· Wanting to support others by allowing them to hear their words coming back to them
· Curiosity – Was the message sent, the message received?
· Your goal is to make things better
· Want to create a deeper level of intimacy
· Heal or improve communication breakdowns
· Release constricted energy from lack of authenticity
· When the “other” is triggered
When Not to Use “Is There More Dialogue”
· When you are fully “triggered” (angry)
· Wanting a certain outcome/strategy (having expectations)
· Want to be right/ make the other person wrong
· Coming from “Demand” energy
· Feeling an unwillingness to be open/authentic
· Wanting to “vent” more than you want to listen
· When you can’t take responsibility for your own thoughts and feelings
· Want to “set the record straight”
· You believe your own story
· Wanting to have a loving connection above all else
· Desiring communication at a deep personal level
· Wanting collaboration (not compromise) in problem solving
· Have an open heart to hearing the needs of another
· Wanting to support others by allowing them to hear their words coming back to them
· Curiosity – Was the message sent, the message received?
· Your goal is to make things better
· Want to create a deeper level of intimacy
· Heal or improve communication breakdowns
· Release constricted energy from lack of authenticity
· When the “other” is triggered
When Not to Use “Is There More Dialogue”
· When you are fully “triggered” (angry)
· Wanting a certain outcome/strategy (having expectations)
· Want to be right/ make the other person wrong
· Coming from “Demand” energy
· Feeling an unwillingness to be open/authentic
· Wanting to “vent” more than you want to listen
· When you can’t take responsibility for your own thoughts and feelings
· Want to “set the record straight”
· You believe your own story
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